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Message from Sam...

This time of year sees people celebrating in different ways, whether it’s Christmas, Hanukkah, the new year or just enjoying the winter time. I’m interested in hearing what this time of year is like for you – perhaps you’re missing someone who’s no longer here or things at home might be especially hard.

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Sam

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social anxiety

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Parents

Dear Sam I get worried at this time of year because it all ways causes more arguments with my parents also my nan has just died so my mum is not very cheerful at the moment I understand this but...

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my girl friend is 13 and im 12. she cheated on me more then one time

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